Work-A-Holic

I don't know where to start off! I've so many things to write, thanks to my personal experience as well as inputs from my friends...

All of us must have seen how sucking up to your boss helps... You've seen the way they easily get promoted, respected and given authority...

 

Well... and then some of us are still unable to do it...

What happens if you don't?
Your promotions never happen or they are delayed.
Your talents or efficiency hardly gets appreciated.
You are made to feel outcasted..

And what if you are a junior?
Ha Ha! Screwed!!
You are not taken seriously.
They think you are brainless.
Whatever you try to do is ignorable!

Beside all this few of us still stay in this partial world trying to make a point every time and failing miserably at that...

Less efficient peers get paid more... Taking on roles they are unable to handle.

Irrespective of having better qualities, we get sidelined... I'm pretty sure many of my friends will also agree to me on this point.

Only when dire necessity comes is when you're needed.. till then you're optional! You don't even know that such a project exists!!

We are all asses working our ass off all day only to get nothing in the end... No appreciation, No respect, No importance, No money either!!

And then you slog and slog with lot of time to blog!!!

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Luv u all,
sHeHzU

The Dice of Life

I am the type of person who usually plan everything in advance. I plan everything down to the tiniest of details. But one thing I have learned about this trait is that it's a good thing but also can be very destructive to your life. When all you are doing is planning for the future you can't really live for the present. It becomes very hard to flex when something happens unexpectedly.

The past few months, have been really mixed for me. With all the feelings flowing in - all at the same time made me and my life go haywire, in the process of developing my so called self-emote, I went back to my cocoon & started thinking about my life all over.

Did I really needed to be sad?

Did I really needed to be frustrated and pained about stuff, which didn't matter and touch me?

Do I have to take everything on me?

Did I really needed to be upset about a future which had not yet come, and let the days just pass by thinking about it?

Why can't I  just live the life as I want, Why is it that even before I was born, frames were already set which I was expected to follow. And I unconsciously kept on doing stuff which people wanted me to do as per their guidelines, then I realize I have already become a slave of the system which I have started to hate.

So now I have decided to live for the moment and not think so much about the future. I will still hope and dream about my life but not hyper focus on things I really can't always control. I am now putting my life in Gods hands. I know that I will go someplace in life and that I have friends and family that love me. So the rest is in his hands. He can now hold to dice up my life.

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Luv u all,
sHeHzU

Half Marathon

Mumbai Marathon 2011

On Sunday 16th January'11, I ran my very first half marathon. It was something that I would never considered doing few months ago. But I guess I've changed a lot in past few months.

Being able to do this half marathon and finish it was a huge thing for me. Finishing was more then just running 21.097 km. Its was like breaking down a big wall in my life. I have been someone who hardly gives up easily. I truly showed myself that I am a lot stronger then I give myself credit for.

I now want to do more such marathon in my future. I think I will do a Full Marathon next year (Insha-Alaah). I had my amazing friend Rigan who accompanied me since the starting point to the finish line.

(L-R) Marise, Gunjan, Roncy, Me, Rigan & Anooj

People kept on cheering us on the whole way and kept us motivating to finish what we have started. We started the marathon in a group of my own company fellow members but later we got separated because of the crowd. Me & Rigan were together from the start to finsih. It was so fun when people would yell from the sidelines - "Come on U can do it...Just a few more miles to go". It gave us that energy to run more faster & complete it as soon as possible.

Crowd Cheering Runners

It was amazing experience of my life, I had never dreamt of running for Marathon ever before. This was my first attempt & I am proud I did it with ease.

Me & Rigan @ Finish Line

I just love it when you can prove yourself you can do something.
life is good...

Marathon Collage

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Luv u all,
sHeHzU