Expectations

 

Expectation is not a bad thing et al... but what makes it not so desirable thing in a relationship is that there is a less possibility of it turning up true! 

- Anonymous Author

Isn't that what keep us going on? We have certain expectations from ourselves, our families, our loved ones...and we keep on multiplying them every time one of them gets fulfilled.

What's better? The satisfaction of being able to expect or the dissatisfaction every time we are let down? Don't we all have some amount of melancholy as a staple diet? Isn't there always something in life that we are not happy about...It is true that we all aim for perfection or contentment maybe..

Expectation is the perfect ground for Disappointment.

Emotions are complex...they always are...we try so hard to decipher our feelings...realize our aims...describe our relationships...are there enough words in the English dictionary to describe the myriad emotions we experience?? Or is that we settle on words because of the satisfaction that we get when it has a name...

Being possessive is good if kept as a cuddled thing in relationship not a raw material for jealousy and hate.

I hope that this post would help us talk more about this subject and people try to acknowledge the fact that having lower expectation some times is good as it always have a element of surprise to stumble upon..!!!

Lastly...Thanks for not having enough expectations from me time to time :)

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Miss You :( :( :(

Post Dedicated to Someone who was really Special to me & will always remain Special.

It is not often that you meet someone who you think would interest you. Someone who could enchant you. Someone who could hold you in rapt attention. In fact, it is extremely rare to cross paths with such a beautiful mind. 

It's a weird feeling but some songs always prick me so bad. I was listening to the acoustic version of  "Sajni" few days back and it did remind me of someone who was very close to me. The song almost made me cry inside. I can never describe the helpless feeling that I get whenever I listen to it. I don't know why but I almost felt like the song was trying to give me a sign or a message that something's not right. Maybe or maybe not I should call that person up and try to apologize but then I'm scared. Life's too short for such egoistic mindsets anyway. We all do mistakes and screw ups but does that mean we should let our fear stop us from what we really want to do?

I always say in public that how I don't care and stuff. It's true! It's all true! And it also doesn't matter if you judge me based on what I scribble out here. Truth is I miss that person real bad. I'm just trying to figure out why :(. I tried too hard to forget and even move on but that's something I can't just let go of. I really need help.

Yeah, I do have new friends and a fresh new life but again that's not enough. My life still feels incomplete. I don't wanna wait for it to be complete or anything. I just really feel that close friend could be and really deserved to be a part of my life.

Why do all good things come to an end?
Why do we wreck things that are so perfect?

Whatever is it that I did, I was wrong. I am wrong. I will always be wrong until and unless I step up and apologize and bring back that person in my life. But... it's too late.

I want to say sorry to that someone. I am really sorry. I know sorry is not enough for anything that I did to hurt you. I beg your forgiveness for my frail moment. I'm sorry for hurting you. Just know that you're the best person ever. I lost many people in my life. I regret losing you the most. It was our fortune that made us cross paths. And I can only pray to Him to mould our destiny. 

Wherever you are, Whatever you doing...I just wanna wish you Luck & May God bless you & keep showering you with his blessings. Miss You :(

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Happy Independence Day :)

"Long years ago we made a tryst with destiny, and now the time comes when we will redeem our pledge, not wholly or in full measure, but very substantially. At the stroke of the midnight hour, when the world sleeps, India will awake to life and freedom. A moment comes, which comes but rarely in history, when we step out from the old to the new, when an age ends and when the soul of a nation, long suppressed, finds utterance.... We end today a period of ill fortune, and India discovers herself again."

- Jawaharlal Nehru
(Speech on Indian Independence Day, 1947)

 Wishing all my blog readers a Very Happy India independence Day 2011.

Other might have forgotten,
But never can I,
The Flag of my country
Furls very high,
Happy Independence Day.

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